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These are my sons with their great grandmother who has happily aged in her home for over 60 years. Her limitations are, for the most part, self-imposed. Now over 90, her decision making is guided by self-preservation. She still cooks her own food, chooses her entertainment and hosts her family and friends, but over-exertion is something she has to be mindful of. Her home gives her the comfort of familiarity and past memories, which grants a sense of security. Further, her situation allows her to remain a member of her community. The neighborhood offers the amenities she requires in short trips. Grocery shopping, medical needs, and spiritual practice are all within reach. She has been blessed with robust mental and physical health, and the boys adore and keep her in their prayers.

Collectively, we have decided that aging in place is desirable for society for multifaceted reasons. These range from individual well-being to management of public costs. But what does aging in place sound like to you if you are 40, 60, 80? When you are 40 it may inform life at the most basic level, such as making financial choices that will accommodate a lifestyle free from potential physical constraints or barriers. It may not look much different then planning for retirement. A 60-year-old is more likely looking at what choices must be made immediately to age in place, if that is desired. These decisions in later years will also be made even more acute by potential deteriorating physical and mental health issues, or financial stress. Many people are looking at aging in place as a family decision to be made with children and grandchildren. This often includes multi-generational dwellings or homesteads. Here is a link to some things to consider. Follow my further posts to see how I have assisted friends and families tackle aging in place.